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merely different

beckyramiscal — Wed, 15 Apr 2009 16:41:46 +0000

Got some realizations made yesterday that made me say “maybe?”. Ok here it goes. In a relationship most women used this line (with matching tears running down from their eyes) “why can’t he love me the way I love him?” or somehow like that which says that the men their with didn’t deserve them.

I lived my life with my brothers and have to talk with their friends and then in my college life I’ve been friends with the boys. Yesterday while watching the hills I’ve compared myself with the boys and with the girls. When a girl likes a guy she totally talks of that guy all day ( I’m one of them.hehe ) while when I’m with the boys he does not talk about the girl, so does this mean that he doesn’t love the girl? Answer =NO why? Because their men. If they love you that’s it don’t expect that they can do what we can I mean no offense but somehow their level of sweetness is that already. What am I pointing out here? I’m saying that women are different from men we can not ask them to do this and that or even expect them to do what we can for them.

we are not “mananangal”:)

beckyramiscal — Tue, 23 Sep 2008 09:38:41 +0000

how will i start this..hmmm ok.i think by admitting that i’m single.haha:))

i’ve watched a series which is originally from a book and eventually i read the book..

one character there said” we are not born half. we need not to find the other half because we are born whole!”

true indeed isn’t it? most of us have been searching for the “one”..thinking he would make us complete.. but hey that may be just on our minds…reality may not hit that one..

there are many people we have ..many things to be proud of ..reasons to smile..to laugh and forget loneliness…we are born whole- yes indeed- this must be on our minds always–why? so that if the “other half” is gone nothing seems lost.. cuz u still have double of what u lost..

sassy girl

beckyramiscal — Tue, 23 Sep 2008 09:27:41 +0000

i’ve just watched the movie my sssy girl (the hollywood version) haven’t watched the korea version yet but according to people who have watched both, korea version is better …

some quotes from the movie stuck on my mind.

destiny.destiny..how do we understand it?

does destiny means we rely to the circumstances, to the chances and let it live our lives..for some times in my life i do rely it to chances saying if it not ours then they will never be ours ..but then i had this quote from the movie that somehow says- destiny doesn’t do it alone destiny needs us- not the exact words actually…as i heard it i was like woah! it’s true…if we don’t move one step we will never go where we are heading.. it always needs our move..there are times we have to shape things and mold it in the way we like it…

or is it just an escape when we are attacked of our lazyness…hmmmm somehow it can be..

but then when we talk about LOVE- destiny always takes place .this is where the “destiny” takes the center stage..many people rely their specifically future partners on chances….. some may say “they will come .” or for romantics they might say “universe will collide and put two people who are _MEANT_ to be for each other……

—-lesson- we make our own destiny- we are the one who draws the line , who erases some mistakes -we make our life-destiny can’t do it alone–

bye bye

beckyramiscal — Mon, 18 Aug 2008 09:22:35 +0000

just reposting this one from my former blog since i frgot my password and can’t anymore open itwhat inspires me to have this blog? well a song …yup for real.. the song bye bye by mariah carey the same voice who brought one sweet day which is also a song that let you reminisce for the lost of someone.. when i first heard it i thought it was just another love song or perhaps a bitter song as what the title says but when i listen to it my perception changes and started to reminisce some things then it went to think about some people..the song talks about the LOST literally lost i mean death as how i perceived the song..have you felt things happen accidentally and fast that sometimes you might think that destiny wants you to eat up eveything that is prepared before you.in 1 blink of an eye some lives have been change , in just saying one thousand one some may grieve some may laugh some may live and some may die unfortunately well that’s the other side of it or some may say the cruelty of destiny.have you experienced it? if yes bear with me if not, maybe not exactly like mine but i know you can feel me too…lift your hands to the sky- as what the song said…almost three years have passed but it seems like it happened just yesterday..time may heal but never will heal the scars ..the voices of the tanod waking us up still in my ears, still i can hear those voices and words , the news they brought that made our world turn around..he’s an artist specialized in abstract paintings art defines not to be understood by all but to be seen it’s beauty may be seen by one and may not by the other.many colors he brought to our lives but one night almost morning the brush fell the red paint started to fill the canvas and black surrounded it….. with just one cross of the street no one knew that my uncle will be heading to another street–heaven

by alfred d.sarino

this is one of his paintings–i can still remember him working on this one–colloecting softdink cans–

bohol bohol

beckyramiscal — Mon, 18 Aug 2008 09:20:29 +0000

just reposting it from my other blog—

bohol
a province in the philipines, an island where you can relax and escape from the busy life , from reality…known by many for its chocolate hills and tarsier but wait there’s a lot more behind bohol..we went there last 2006
my first time to go there i was so excited and that excitement and expectations were filled by nice cinematic scenes…the beach, the dolphins who are just swimming along the shore and you can just see while you are on aboat..
.the water was so clear and the white sand of the beach is fine and according to the manong there the island is considered as virgin isand compared to boracay, which is so famous around the world for its beaches, because it is not yet populated and in fact when you are there it seems like you own it, not much of people around you ,a perfect place to sit down relax and see the beauty of life…i took that picure above from one of the beaches there were we stayed.. i walked around took some pictures …as i have observed that place is more of a family vacation rather than for barkadas but however it is still great for friends..you be relaxed there..

memorable thing happened during our stay at bohol..as i go to the boat youwil walk a lil bit on the water causing you to be wet up to your hips then climbed up to the boat s i carefully stretch my hands up so that my camera won’t get wet but unfortunately while i rejoice having not even a single drop on my camera i realized something——my cellphone is in my pocket…waaaah…due to my eagerness to know if my phone still works i turned it on so there my possibility of reviving it just died…

hope that you might visit there to unwind and relax and hopefully not have some unfortunate accidents like what i had on my phone…
so there..til next time..

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